Victorian Fic - Wilde's Trials

[shes-a-geek.livejournal.com]

Does anyone recall the name of a H/W fic in which Holmes and Watson leave for the Continent following Oscar Wilde's conviction? I'm pretty sure it is (or was) on Ao3 and was written for an exchange of some kind, but I'm not finding it. I'm also pretty certain it was ACD-based, although, based on when I remember reading it, it could have also been inspired by the Ritchieverse. Sorry for the vagueness. Thanks!

EDIT: Found (maybe?)! It's probably rainuponthemoon's Men Like Us, but I'd love to catch up with anyone who remembers similar fics and discussions of H/W and Wilde from a few years back.

Asexual!Sherlock

[shadowangele89.livejournal.com]

Hey,

I'm looking for a series. I know I read it on AO³ but can't find it now.
BBC!Sherlock is asexual but he and John are in a relationship, they don't have really sex but do otherthings instead like John washes Sherlock or massages his feet. John is content with this and loves it.
I think but I could be mixing fics they get married at the end and the series was finished?

I hope you reconise this series :)

Edit: I remembered some more. Sherlock experiments on John about what he likes, first Johns back, than his front and than on Sherlock. And they try that John gives him a BJ but it's to much sensory input for Sherlock and they have to stop. Sherlock was quiet upset about it.
And there was a Silvesterparty at the MET in the gym, but this could be a other fic I'm not sure.