Sherlock Holmes Fic Finding Community

I'm searching for three specific stories (all slash), two I expect, are still where I last read them, I merely can't remember where and who the authors were, the third is gone from the URL I had saved.

1.) Lestrade was sexually assaulted by a criminal, because the scandal could destroy his career Homes and Watson help him cover it up and bring him home with them. There they talk and it comes out that Watson too was assaulted by a soldier in his care during the war. He never reported the soldier because he was out of his mind with fever at the time and though Watson was his male lover.

FOUND: Courtesy of nemo_everbeing over on cox_and_co, it's 'Save Haven' by icarus_chained 

2.) Holmes finds out that Watson is in love and sexually attracted to him, he does not take it well. Watson asks Holmes if they can stay roommates, due to a misunderstanding Holmes thinks he is asking if he can kiss (or otherwise touch) him and tells him no rather vehemently. Watson moves out and Holmes follows him to clear everything up. It ends with Holmes/Watson.

FOUND: thanks to bitterhaze for pointing out that this scene is part of story No. 3 'A Series of Pas de Deux'

3.) The story is called 'A Series of Pas de Deux' and was archived at adultfanfiction.net, but now I can't find it there or anywhere else. Lestrade figures out that Watson is in love with Holmes and mistakenly thinks that they are in a relationship. He too is in love with Holmes and figures that he has a chance with Holmes now that he supposedly knows that he is a homosexual. Holmes doesn't take his advantages well. Inconsolable he turns to Watson for comfort as they are in the same boat with their unrequited feelings for Holmes.
Holmes turns Voyeur, figures out his feelings for Watson and all ends well (except for poos Lestrade).

FOUND: can be found here thanks to rabidsamfan 

Anyone know where I can find either one of these stories? My eternal thanks would be yours!